Anonymous asked: what a bitch you are. It's july and you haven't updated since january. just forfeit the domain please. others will put it to actual use.
what would you do with it
Anonymous asked: I need a snappy response to people who accuse me of being "intolerant" and "hateful" for refusing to date anyone who didn't vote for Clinton. (Context: I live in a swing state. Also context: I'm an Arab-American with approximately three "pre-existing conditions" who may have to go on disability the next time I need a life-saving surgery.)
There is literally no reason to talk to someone so fucking stupid they think avoiding bigotry is “hateful.” Dump those fuckers.
Anonymous asked: Im spending a few days with my family - he's upset because I should want to only see him. I think he just wants sex and someone to help him pack up his apartment.
u should ditch your family but not fuck or pack this fool. (kidding, dump him)
Anonymous asked: Ok thing is that everytime i've been asked on a date (which isnt much) it's been as a joke and it doesn't help that im plus sized so now im afraid i wont be able to tell if they mean it cause in my head i'll just think they mean it as a joke. I dont need a partner but I do admit I would like one (or the thought of one since ya know no date ever) I'm working on my self esteem issues but yeah
I’m so sorry that people have been so cruel. Don’t let these things get you down or get in your head. People are mean, and awful, but they do not speak the truth. Nearly everyone I know has dealt with this sort of thing at some point– feeling less than, being teased, and having low self-esteem because of it. It feels like you’re alone right now, but you’re not. Continue working on your self-esteem and love yourself. Everything else will fall into place.
Anonymous asked: Are labels stupid/unnecessary?
Like “boyfriend/girlfriend”? I went as long as possible without labeling my relationship, but it got to the point where it was way easier to be like, “Yo this is my boyfriend” than try to explain this human I want to spend all my time with that makes me not want to date anyone else. Just have to do what’s right for you– they’re not right or wrong.
Anonymous asked: I live with my girl. She's reserved and sometimes it feels like pulling teeth to get her to spend time with me. She'll make any kind of time for her friends (and for one person online in particular), but I don't think it even occurred to her I still might want to go on dates until I finally broke down crying about it. Now we do dates, but then I spend a lot of the time carrying the conversation. I worry I might be a pushy asshole here because she doesn't want my attention like I do hers.
Wanting to spend time with your girlfriend doesn’t make you a pushy asshole, it means you’re in a relationship. But you may need to reevaluate if your priorities are well-matched. Doesn’t mean anyone’s an asshole, but you may both need different things from a partner.
Anonymous asked: Legit to send someone the turd emoticon as the sole response to an awkward attempt at flirting?
That just feels like more awkward flirting, but do you.
Anonymous asked: Can I have this tumblr since you are clearly not using it?
You could take all this extra time you got and come up with an original idea?
Anonymous asked: she got the mac with the cheese naw mean?
Not really, but I am stoned and that sounds delicious.
Anonymous asked: She wants us to have a future together, but she was mean to me when I was sick. :(
I would need more information. Cause maybe she was being mean and that’s not chill, or maybe you’re a real baby when you’re sick, and that shit is annoying as hell.