Yo, Should I Dump This Asshole?

I dumped that asshole like six years ago now and EVERY DAY SINCE HAS BEEN BETTER. Never underestimate The Power of Dumping That Asshole(TM).

andrewti — Tue, 21 May 2013 14:12:56 -0700

It’s not actually trademarked.

Yo, I wish this site had been around 10 years ago, when I started seeing my verbally and emotionally abusive, alcoholic ex. I wouldn't have wasted five precious years of my life with him! Actually, I might have, tho, cos I was a dingdong then (and I still am!) :(

andrewti — Mon, 20 May 2013 13:59:32 -0700

:-(

"Yo, this person I'm dating is OBVIOUSLY a piece of shit and I can't decide if they're ENOUGH of a piece of shit so I'm asking a stranger ON THE INTERNET". -- My impression of everyone asking questions here

andrewti — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:28:01 -0700

That is pretty on the nose.

If you think your partner is an asshole and you are seeking a stranger on the internet's permission to dump them then your relationship is clearly not worth a damn.

andrewti — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:18:03 -0700

OH WORD????

Yo, Is This Racist?: anonymous asked: how can I explain to my bf that there’s no such thing...

andrewti — Sun, 19 May 2013 15:40:22 -0700

Yo, Is This Racist?: anonymous asked: how can I explain to my bf that there’s no such thing...:

yoisthisracist:

anonymous asked: how can I explain to my bf that there’s no such thing as racism against white people? (we’re both white but I recognize my privilege and I want him to also bc I don’t want to date a racist obviously) are there any good articles or anything you could link me to? he doesn’t always…

He's pretty much Archie Bunker and I can't condone any of his behavior or his values.... But he's nice to me, he's fun to be with, and he makes me happy like no other. I'm not dumping this ahole. Cool?

andrewti — Fri, 10 May 2013 09:30:41 -0700

No, extremely uncool.

Yo. He blew off my birthday. And Valentine's. And Christmas. He has a million little things about myself he'd like me to "work on" but if I say the same to him he tells me I'm overreacting. That he is who he is, like it or not. Not sure I like any of it anymore. Should I dump this asshole?

andrewti — Thu, 09 May 2013 14:41:53 -0700

Uh, yeah, obviously.

he's really sweet and i really like him but a. he's always at my house at weird hours??? like at 7 am and i don't ask him to be? or 11 pm when i get home from the airport? and he never tells me he's coming over? and b. i'm the "only person in the world he trusts" and that is a LOT OF PRESSURE

andrewti — Thu, 09 May 2013 13:19:45 -0700

Yo, if that asshole can’t respect your personal space, he is not sweet.

I'm pretty sure he'll attempt suicide if I dump him. My relationship is now a hostage situation. :(

andrewti — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 22:10:18 -0700

Uh, you should tell someone who can be responsible for him without putting themselves in emotional or physical danger and then get the fuck out.

he demanded to know an exact timeframe of when i'm going to get over the holocaust, "because he got over the potato famine a long time ago." i'm a jewish woman who had most of her family tree obliterated. his family is like 6th generation irish americans.

andrewti — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 10:31:58 -0700

Why are you even remotely considering remaining together with this piece of shit?

not even dating this dude, i like him a lot but he dated a now ex-friend and was dishonest with her and me about his feelings for me the whole time. think i should dump him and myself for even entertaining the idea

andrewti — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 17:22:31 -0700

Is it even physically possible to dump yourself????

I am a WOC and I am dating a white guy. When issues of race are discussed, he gets defensive and accuses me of having poor delivery—i.e., I am too aggressive. I get hurt and end up crying every time. Should I dump him? I also kinda feel like I won’t date white people anymore.

andrewti — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 10:25:47 -0700

Yo, definitely dump that piece of shit, you don’t have to let some asshole tell you when you’re being too “aggressive.”

So I am wondering if I am an asshole for not wanting to date a guy more than 3 inches shorter than me. I know plenty of girls wont even date someone the same height as them, let alone shorter. But I am 6'1" and a lot of guys are shorter than me. I feel like an asshole because I meet some great guys that are short (like 5'6") and I also think that I would date a woman more than three inches shorter. But I feel like a pedophile when a guy is that much smaller than me. Thanks for the help. :)

Sat, 13 Apr 2013 16:10:20 -0700

You’re the one missing out!

My school's firewall blocks this site because apparently it's porn.

andrewti — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 14:22:09 -0700

It’s fairly difficult to imagine anyone getting aroused by this, but, YOU DO YOU EVERYONE.

He's a nice guy, and he has a nice asshole

andrewti — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 11:59:05 -0700

BRAG BRAG BRAG

I'm dating a really nice new guy but I still really really miss that asshole.

andrewti — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 22:34:18 -0700

Why.

Yo, the asshole came crawling back and I coldly blew him off, nbd. 10 points for moi.

andrewti — Sat, 30 Mar 2013 16:56:57 -0700

WAIT WE’RE KEEPING SCORE OH SHIT

Yo so I dumped the asshole and feel awesome, but we dated for like 3 years (I should have done it 2 years ago :c) and its been like two weeks how long do I have to wait for it to be respectable before dating again? I am pretty sure I feel ready already but is that normal?

andrewti — Sat, 23 Mar 2013 20:01:49 -0700

IT IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE

I'm hearing the word "misandry" a lot and I'm thinking it's a bad sign.

Thu, 21 Mar 2013 10:47:28 -0700

What could be bad about dating some delusional sexist asshole?

problem is, they're still assholes even after being dumped, huh

andrewti — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 12:13:49 -0700

Yeah, but they’re not in your life anymore, which is good.